I occasionally revisit this topic, which challenges me as I consider the questions of self-expectation. It’s not only about seeking perfection; it’s that the intricate dance between ambition and reality often leads to frustration. Once, I had a highly respected manager tell me, “I could never be as hard on you as you are on yourself.” This statement has been on my mind ever since, serving as a reminder that my self-critique often overshadows the view of others. Often, I forget to celebrate the small victories along the way. This reminds me that while growth is important, self-kindness is equally necessary. I try to nurture an environment where both ambition and compassion can coexist.
Growing up, I was taught that there was no such thing as good enough, which led me to believe that I would never achieve perfection. Today’s younger generations are inundated with social media platforms that often present unrealistic examples of who they should be, contributing to a culture of comparison that can feel overwhelming. They strive to be better, setting high expectations for themselves based on these filtered images of success. However, remembering the importance of grace toward ourselves is important. We should acknowledge that everyone’s journey is unique and that progress can look different for each person.
By embracing our imperfections, we develop a more compassionate relationship with ourselves, allowing us to learn from our mistakes and celebrate our successes. Understanding that everyone has flaws builds deeper connections with others. This journey of self-discovery empowers us to approach life with an open mind, creating opportunities for lifelong growth and fulfillment.
Peace be with you
On another note, there will not be a post next week. I’ll look forward to connecting with you, again, on September 19.
Aging with Grace 
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