Home is the nicest word there is.
Laura Ingalls Wilder
Early this week, the man delivering groceries looked around and, as he set the bags on the counter, said, “Beautiful. Your home has serenity.” I admit to be taken back. First by his generous compliment , then by the acknowledgement that those few minutes touched him. It meant a lot to me that what I had created made a difference to him.
Where I live, especially the inside of where I live, has always been important to me. Not as much from a standpoint of what others think, but because I am sensitive to the space around me and how it affects my well-being. I work to surround myself with objects that I find beautiful and that have meaning for me. If you come into my home and point to any given object, I can tell you about it. Where it came from, who made it, why it’s important to me. I have created a space that tells a story of who I am.
Many of these photos of our home have been posted before. Looking through my blog I realize I have written about different aspects of home many times. It is influenced, I believe by my French heritage. The French see their home as a place of refuge. Somewhere where they express themselves in much the same way an artist does with a painting. You will find they are not fast to invite you into their home. They want to know you before they give you this access to who they are.
I am not quick to discard what surrounds me. Art created by friends, my husband’s collection of Russian porcelain animals, my grandmother’s silver, photos of family and friends through the years, a little cut glass vase my son brought back to me from a trip to France. My decor is an eclectic combination of pieces put together based on what appeals to me, not a particular period or style. Because a piece of furniture is old or marred is not a reason to replace it. When I sold leather bags, in the boutique, scratches and discoloration were referred to as the patina of wear. It gave the leather character.
There is not a right or wrong way to live in your home. The more important factor is that it is a home and not just a house. A place that is a sanctuary, where you can escape from the outside world and find a few moments of peace.
Aging with Grace 
10 responses to “House or Home”
The most enlightened delivery man ever! I imagine your home feels good when people walk in and I love how each piece that dwells there has a story of it’s own. You have made a house, your home. 💖
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I know we share a love of home. I’m still having a glitch liking comments. That’s okay. This way I can tell you I love 💕 your comment.
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This way is so much better than any ‘like’ button. We do share a love for many of the same things. One day I may have to come for a visit to see your home and you in person! 💖
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I would love for you to visit. 💕
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How beautifully put! The photos are expressive, too. Your grocery man was right, there’s serenity all around. ( Just one more thought, dusting must be a chore indeed! 😁)
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I always enjoy hearing from you. Fortunately, our home doesn’t accumulate dust too quickly. I admit to not looking at the top shelves very often. “Out of sight, out of mind.” Sorry I’m still struggling with being able to like comments. Word Press can be frustrating!
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So lucky not to have too much dust. It’s a losing battle for me – ah yes, the top shelves…what top shelves?!! Hehe.
Love your posts.
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Thank you!
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The man, who delivered your groceries was sensitive and right.
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He made my day!
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